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I am not interested in another phony fake wolf pretending to be a sheep of the Good Shepherd. Anyone who asks for a full body shot objectifies people and is forming an opinion about someone in the same way they would as they scour a catalog for various items. Reply I have been single three years now and remain friends with my ex bf no sex involved but he wants to I don’t we don’t argue about it I tell him I’m just not interested in having sex anymore it’s a lie im just not interested in having sex with him. in fact I would keep a low profile and just browse other people’s profiles and try to see who might not be a narc… 1) It’s an indicator that they have no interest in your personality or you as a human being. THIS is the perfect time, if you plan on dating again (personally I’d enjoy my newly recovered freedom for a while and avoid dating sites, but that’s me and you are not me) to go back and look up cyber safety documentation and learn how to not give away too much info…
I did not feel safe putting my photo on line to because of the fact I suspect my ex is a covert narcissist and all that goes with it , I really think we need to look at ‘on line dating sites ‘like they have in the USA and make them more accountable for the slap dash was they can some times run their sites. Reply Hi Kim my advice for anyone who is involved with a narissist.. Pack your bags anger as far away from them as you can. They have to put you Down to f3l good about themselfs sad really. – No or few irl connections with real people — one of them had no friends and the other had one who also seemed narcy, and this one also held onto his ex as a friend with benefits behind my back.– One of them was too meek to pull this, but the other negged me horribly, trying to break my confidence down to convince me that I couldn’t do any better.People often tell me that I am very attractive, well this horrible man told me that I’m so physically flawed no other man in the world could want me. They get some kid of fix from winning in video games that they can’t get irl because they are too lowly.I met the POF guy shortly after Thanksgiving and had a wonderful cozy holiday with him.By April we were in Key West together with the coconut umbrella drinks.I’m still healing from my last experience so am not dating, but when I’m ready I will never use a free dating site again, if I use one at all. Needless to say, they’re divorced, but it took her a while to get over that disaster and hurt.
Reply yep, 3 years-red flags all the time that I denied…until one day the moron sent my cell phone a message he intended to send to another girl, nasty and disgusting…when I confronted him he just calmly said that he wasn’t my boyfriend…this was after 3 years. Not going anywhere.backwards 🙂 I have a friend on Tinder and she makes me crazy with her stories. Reply Im 56 years old – before the days of internet, I met guys thru places I went-didnt mean they wouldn’t turn out to be pigs but at least I got to meet them in person. I gave him my cellphone number (Not smart) but I was able to find out where his number was from, nothing to do with Santa Ana, CA.
Of the ones who were not obviously loaded, obvious predators, or blatantly insulting – that is, about 75% – The balance wanted a pen pal or a woman to call them. Reply This sounds like such a frustrating experience.
Thank you for sharing – I checked OK Cupid recently to find friends in the area I had moved to, and it was a total waste of time for me as well.
Nothing worth telling – no need to upgrade the experience with a story. I remember checking it out after a long term relationship ended six years ago, and it seemed a colorful and fun place to explore online dating and see “what’s out there”.
Back then, I corresponded with three people who were too far to meet in person, and the pen friendship was helpful in re-discovering how to gradually get to know a new person.
Reply Kim, you have been very helpful in so many ways.