Asian parents dating
If you ever run into such imbeciles again, why not take their negativity and throw it right back at them with a good comeback? 😉 Or better still, just learn to distance yourself from the negativity.I used to get really angry about the injustice of it all, and I still get irked from time to time.
As my boyfriend (who is a white male himself) puts it, “Every white guy wants to have sex with an Asian girl, but not all of them want to date one.” We all know the popular slang term “yellow fever”, which describes a (usually) white male who fetishizes Asian women.(Cameron, you’re on my shit list.) Why all the negativity about dating Asian men (and, in my case, Chinese men)? I think a better question is, why are they the ones thinking about dicks and beating women and ugliness?Is it the media that refuse to let Chinese men become one the next Harrison Ford or Cary Grant, that iconic sexy and strong leading man? Whatever it is, it’s obviously these people who have the problem, and not you.The guys might be threatened by seeing you with an Asian guy, someone they always figured they could somehow “out-do” to get the attention of a girl like you.The girls might have, say, watched things like Sixteen Candles a few too many times, clueless to the reality that there are so many amazing Asian men (and, in my case, Chinese men 😉 ) out there.During the year and a half I was on Tinder, white males of or around my age sent me messages such as “you’re my first Asian”, “Asa Akira”, “you look like an Asian goddess”, and best of all, “don’t Asian girls love white guys?
” I was born and raised in Toronto by my parents who were also raised in Toronto, so I was just as westernized as these guys were.
The reactions don’t seem to be specific to the country he is from… says anything negative when I mention my Chinese husband.
they are just so grossed out that anyone can actually date an asian guy. But then again, I live in the middle of nowhere, work from home, and I can’t even remember the last time I mentioned him to someone new.
”Now if I was with literally anyone else, no one would bat an eye.
(Trust me, it’s a really, really small town.) 😉 Look, I’ve had my share of the negativity.
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